I've read a quotes that saying:
"Woman needs a man with good future. Man needs a woman with good past."
What do you think about it?
For me, at first i think it makes sense.
Everyone wants that, both woman and man.
But when i think again, suddenly i feel there's something weird.
I found the injustice on that quotes, especially for woman.
"Man needs a woman with good past."
Well, i think every man on this earth wants it.
But if you think deeper, what's the point of having a woman with good past?
Does a woman with good past 100% guarantee will have a good future?
Then what about the woman with bad past?
Does she will also have a bad future?
I mean, why you have to judge woman (people) good or bad only by their past?
Maybe she did something bad in her past, but it doesn't mean she'll continue doing that.
Hmmm, everyone makes mistake! We all know it!
And we also knows that nobody's perfect!
But still there's a chance for people to change to be better, right?
I want to give an opinion about why woman needs a man with good future.
It's because she thinks about the future, the things that will happen, the life that she'll living, the man that will accompany her through her good/bad times, and the other things ahead.
Why she didn't think about the man's past?
She don't really bothered about the man's past because she knows that the past is done, it can't be change!
Eventhough she knew that maybe her man used to be a player before, likes to cheating, rude, etc, she didn't care anymore.
Because she knows that her man don't live in his past anymore!
Doesn't someone's present and future is worth more than the past, right?
So why man's perspective can't be like womans?
What i want to say here is, don't judge people only by their past.
Because when you do that, it's like you don't give them a chance to be a better person.
Do you get it?
Once again i wanna say:
Please don't judge people only by their past. They don't live there anymore!!

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